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May 15 2018

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flippyspoon:

Chelsea was all our moms today.

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well-welly-well-belly-belle:

well-welly-well-belly-belle:

I love how baby boomers will talk about child-rearing like “I was beaten and repressed as a kid and turned out fine” and then like fifteen minutes later they’ll be like “A cashier at a clothing store wouldn’t take my expired coupon, this is a PERSONAL AFFRONT and you have to help me get them FIRED.”

Like. Are you sure you turned out fine, though? Cuz like. It seems like maybe you didn’t.

Okay but this since this stupid as fuck joke post is getting way more notes than I ever thought it would, I just wanna clarify that this post isn’t trying to insinuate that being abused makes people abusive. It’s about how abuse fucks up a person’s fight or flight responses in a major way.

We make fun of boomers for being entitled douchebags, and they are, but it doesn’t seem like a huge coincidence to me that the generation that talks the most casually and dismissively about childhood abuse also happens to be known for massive fight or flight reactions to innocuous situations.

May 14 2018

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seatrench:

Arowana red colour morphs

(sourcesource)

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bijoux-et-mineraux:

Morganite - Minas Gerais, Brazil

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yesthecubesme:

Aggretsuko!

May 12 2018

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pauulwalker:

What We Do in the Shadows dir. Jemaine Clement and Taika Waititi

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jopara:

*googles number i dont recognize calling me instead of answering*

Calling all One Day at a Time fans and pro-LGBTQIA+ and Latinx representation folks - this is not a drill!

profeminist:

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This message is from a co-showrunner of One Day at a Time on Netflix.

They need viewers over the next few days to watch four or more shows to help keep it on the air! LET’S DO THIS!!!

The show has an out teen lesbian main character!

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Who now has a non-binary sweetheart!

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A single Latinx mom who is out of the military and working on her PTSD.

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RITA MORENO!!!

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WE CAN’T LET THIS GIFT TO THE WORLD GO AWAY. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE WATCH 4 OR MORE EPISODES THIS WEEK IF YOU CAN, AND PLEASE SHARE!!!

sunflowers-and-moonflowers:

a centaur dating sim called Hold Your Horses!

are you ready for a stable relationship?

May 11 2018

bukbot:

deaderrose:

bukbot:

writingpromptsbot:

Your character is a man.
Your character is from the Dominican Republic.
Your character often feels scared.
Your character is passionate.
Your character is in love with an impatient delivery driver.

Character often feels heartbroken.

Aww! Bukbot, you’ve given this cold character a beautiful soul!

You’re a wonderful writer, little buddy!

Towel Tea Towel The Illuminati Ate My Dog And Made Me Do topped the UK.

mesopelagic:

mesopelagic:

mesopelagic:

holy shit i have the best idea

my line of logic was “well if i put the sponge in the blender, when i turn it on the sponge will spin around and scrub the blender for me so i dont have to spend ages cleaning it”

thats not what happened though :•(

glumshoe:

glumshoe:

gay culture is getting heartbroken by Mia’s makeover from The Princess Diaries as a child

she was so attractive!!! and then I literally couldn’t tell her apart from any other fancy lady on TV.

inabasket:

I’m a big fan of that post-laundry feeling when you’ve got all your A-list clothes back in the game.

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traumasurvivors:

You don’t need to be “over” what happened to you.

Everyone heals at different paces and that’s okay.

You’re incredible.

I promise.

fullmetalwindbreaker:

going to bed without an alarm set feels good feels organic. all natural free range sleep baby

May 09 2018

twentyonelizards:

my boyfriend and I sometimes struggle to be on the same page when it comes to comforting- often i just want to vent and don’t need advice, whereas validation confuses him and he wants a plan of action

to counter this, we’ve come up with a system where we ask: “do you want advice, empathy, both or neither?” 

if it’s just advice, i know to go straight to action points and not spend time on fluffy words 

if it’s just empathy, he knows i want to be reassured and comforted and that’s all

if it’s both, it’s time for advice that recognises how hard the situation is and is perhaps gentler in nature

if it’s neither, just a hug is really good

i recommend trying to use this in your lives! it makes sure you’re giving and getting what you need, and reduces the risk of resentment or similar

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